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4.Words and personality types

Basically, through all of these e-mails, I've talked about how to get along with every single person based on their personality. As humans, we have our own personality, and it's kind of like having a positive or negative charge with other people, and we tend to just be attracted to what we see best fit as a friend or good person. But really, when we want to help people see unconditional love, we need to love unconditionally. I get along with everyone by not judging them, and telling them that they can be open about anything with me because I won't judge them or break their trust. But to get along with everyone, you need to know their personality type. When you know that, then you learn how to talk to them; what they like and what they don't like. But you always use unconditional love no matter what. On the judging and leading people to God subject, it talks more about how to do that. Every person is different though, and we need to respect that. When you learn unconditional love, and open your mind, you can get along with almost anyone. Yes, there are some out there that just refuse, but I truly think that since all of this is new to me, since the past two years, I just haven't mastered getting along with every single person, but I'm getting there. I'm just really shy and timid, and it's hard for me to talk to everyone, but when I get on the unconditional love subject with someone, it's hard to stop. Truthfully too, I can't be this way with my family, because I live with them, and it's just hard for me to talk to them, Karen, my dad. But once I move out some day, I can teach them this stuff. But it's just hard to for me when you're a child and you live with them. Anything they say goes...
Anyways, every human being has a story behind their eyes, and it makes them who they are, along with the way they were raised most of the time, and we need to respect that. All we can do is try to understand where they are coming from, no matter what, and give them advice in a way that best fits their likes and dislikes. It’s kind of hard to explain, but the more you are open minded, the more you can truly see a person, and know the best ways of how to talk to them, and state your opinion without upsetting them. I've learned that you can't just go into a subject all the time just stating your opinion. You have to basically prepare them for it. Say things like, "I hope you don't mind me stating my opinion about this subject, but it's just how I feel, and we all have different opinions, and I will respect yours." Use words that prepare a person. But leave judging out. Once we learn to truly open our minds and understand other people's places and show them unconditional love, then things can get amazing. Standards, judging, and leading people to God will have even more information mixed in it about this subject also.