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girls and sex
i know for a lot of u reading this [[though i dont really expect many people to read this]] you have had sex... and if not u have seen porn.... so make the best of ur experience while reading this. i am a sexually active girl... and its really hard for me to c**. i love my bf, and i love what he does to me when we are getting it on. but, and i know u ladies will nod upon reading this, he cums too soon. its not that he just pushes in and its over.... he lasts a while... but its never quite long enough. i was looking online for some help, cuz i dont want him to know and feel as if he isnt doing it right. and i saw that less than 20% of women have had an orgasam just from their partner. most use toys or stimulate themselves, and this makes me wonder.... y isnt it easy for girls to c**... i mean, i know y its so easy for boys.... cuz if it was hard then we would never have babies in this world. i know its not nessisary for girls to c**, cuz we do get wet.... and thats pretty good... but i would love to c** like he does. the look on his face, and the way he is so happy after. boys have it lucky. while i was looking around on the internet it also said that women benifit from foreplay and things like that. a lot of women would love to have more oral sex given to them.... i would feel so bad asking for that. as a bisexual, i have had experiences with both men and women, and i have found out that if u are going to be giving oral sex, its best to do it to a boy.... they taste better. and i know there are things such as flavored lube, but thats kinda a hassle. if u cant do it naturally.... it probably shouldnt be done. dont get me wrong.... i love oral sex... and i love both giving and recieving... but i know what a v****a tastes like... thats y i could never ask for it from the man i love. tonight i tryed something that we really dont do..... foreplay. and i had in mind that i would get him in the mood... and i would show him a good time before sex. the foreplay was oral.... but there was no oral sex. and in doing that, i was hopeing that he would do the same to me... but i really dont think that i should ask for it. if he wanted to do it then he would. and in my experience when u ask for it, its short and never what u thought it would be like. im not complaining about my sex life.. though im sure it sounds like that.... i really do love what i give and get. but really.... im asking, is there a way to acheive an orgasam and still be discreet @ the same time. cuz really, i dont want him to think that he isnt doing a great job. and bringing a toy into the mix, or useing something than what we usually do would be weird. he is into trying new positions, and he is fairly willing..... if there is n e on the that read this that has n e advice, PLEASE CONTACT ME!!!!!
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