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so, when i'm not on gaia here i'm typically on this mmo called pwi (perfect world international).

my boyfriend, his brother, a few friends of ours, and my ex all play the game too. so a bunch of us got together and made a guild.

lately though, things have been a little rocky. my bf and i have been playing less often the last few months (since i moved in, and things started looking a little grim we sorta decided we preferred the real world for the time being).

well we were on now and then, just enough to watch things go down hill. and this weekend we get a call from his brother asking us to get on and help with TW (if you play you know, if you don't, it doesn't matter so don't worry about it). we figure, sure that sounds like a good way to spend a saturday.

so on we get, but my bf is on for maybe 2-3 minutes at most before he and our leader/friend start fighting. they get into all kinds of s**t that i won't try to explain here.

finally they take a break from the disagreements for TW but immediately afterward our leader decides that he's being a trouble maker or something and kicks him from guild.

i started to follow but had a couple friends and my bf tell me to stay in and wait it out.

anyway, so now i'm pissed, because this isn't the first time our leader has banned someone from the guild based on a personal disagreement between him and someone else. this is not a quality i find very respectable in a leader. furthermore, based on the argument, he seems to have a difficult time taking criticism or having people bring up problems the guild seems to be having.

i can understand wanting everything to be peachy all the time, but you can't just ignore issues, and when people say they've heard this that or the other thing from other guildies, you don't just write it off by saying "you're making s**t up." it's just what he heard *shrug* and a real leader would look into it.

he's so effing delusional right now, it's not even funny >.>

okay, now that i've got that off my chest.