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Most of who read this already know what occured. Misunderstandings and what most were calling a form of massive "miscommunication" threatened to ruin New Years for those of us who travelled down to AZ to spend it with our new-found AZ friends. Of what I have allowed myself to know of it, a conversation broke out about our drinking night. One side was attempting to perswade the other to join in, but the other was strongly against it. From what I saw of the convo, it wasn't pushed too badly and it was dropped and the conversation was turned for the brighter side. All seemed well-ish.
We scheduled a get-together to go DDRing. Ketobie and myself hoped we'd get food out of it, somehow. The plan was to meet at his friend's house, but the plans got jumbled in his friend's mind and they thought we were all meeting at Ketobie's. Those who are aliens to AZ+ Ketobie went to the friend's house and let ourselves in as we were suprised that they were not there, as we were already rather late. His friend and the friend's gf came home and it seemed it wasn't really to her liking that we were there. It was a mistake of hearing, is all.
The next day, I think it was, we all met here to go out for dinner. Drinking night was that night, as it had been moved so that those who hated drinking could hang out with those who did. We got a call and Ketobie's friend told us regretfully that "out of towners are not invited." Something to that effect anyway. We were a bit baffled. I thought that perhaps they wanted to try and get a old-group-only thing going but then wondered why we were shuned when we came DOWN here for this. I let it go, since I don't deal with females well anyway.
We spent our drinking night in fun. I was sick, and so was Ketobie's friend afterwards. Of course, we both said we'd never drink again. Funny how one always says that after spending time with the bathroom. But it was great. In my mind, THAT night was our New Years. New Years ended up just being Tai, Kim, Chaofly, Ketobie and myself hanging playing games and talking. It was fun as well. Pretty low-beat for hangover day.
The next day a fight broke forth. Or shall I call it the day of ultimate drama? I stayed out of it mostly because my thoughts on this kind of s**t are never nice. Ever. I always pick out the people who overreact, as I tend to do when involved anyway, and get mean towards them. Apparently we had upset the girl who had shunned us because we had been upset about being "banned". Lots of stuff passed between Tai, the girl (who will remain unnamed due to the fact that A. I barely know her, B. No one not involved should know anyway, C. It really doesn't matter that much) and Ketobie. Oh and plus a good friend of the girl. Again, I know little of what was said and so because I stayed out of it as much as possible in the beginning. I fight my battles dirty, this battle needed tactic to be solved. I was honestly waiting for it to all be worked out and all forgiven.
It didn't really exactly. There was some wild stuff being passed about. First, it was said that we wouldn't enjoy what they were doing New Years evening so we weren't invited. That makes no sense since we were told that we WEREN'T invited. Then it was said that she expected it to be a group only thing and didn't know we came down here to spend New Years with everyone. That kind of struck me as BS since why else would we come down around NEW YEARS? She finally spoke to Tai and admitted she was mad about us being in the house. Explained it was Ketobie's fault though for letting us in. Then why didn't she speak to Ketobie about it? When he tried to talk to her about it, she told him she wasn't having this convo with him. Makes sense I suppose, since she WAS talking to Tai and it's never fun to find out that parts of your talk are being copied to someone you don't want to talk to yet.
I dunno. The whole night was like this. In my mind, being as misinformed and underknowledged of the event as it was, was thinking nasty stuff. She tells us we can't come (then again, we don't know exactly HOW it was said over the phone before it was told to us) and then tells the others she didn't invite us because she thought we'd be bored. Feels like a coverup in my mind. Then she says that she didn't know we wanted to BE invited. Why ban us if you don't think we want to come? Or that it's a group only thing, why not talk it out with us?
All in all it must have been solved, somehow. We were all invited for bowling today. It's going to be s**t-hard for me to be nice during this. I can't stand people who hide their true intentions and feelings. It's against everything I am. I hide my feelings when I know they are temporary and stupid. Like if I get jealous or hate someone who's annoying. If that's the case with this, then that's all fine and I can understand the coverups. I'm hoping that it WAS all a misunderstanding. Maybe today I'll find out. I needed to actually write my part in the drama because it IS going to be hard for me today and if I slip up, maybe someone reading this will understand why and not condem my fate.
I hate highschool crap. I thought I left it long ago. But, well, such is the sacrifice of having friends. I'm going to try, and all should be fine.
 Silent Flame · Wed Jan 03, 2007 @ 09:26pm · 0 Comments |
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