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get him off youre mind, just cuz he is cute shouldnt mean anything. if you really love your bf you rlly shouldnt think about anyone else. sure you can think their hot but doing this is kinda wrong confused

not trying to be rude, i know stuff like this happens but its still kinda wrong.. you cant blame him, YOU are letting yourself do this to you.

JSI don't think he is that cute! That's the problem. Its his personality, and his mannerisms that I like. I would never leave my boyfriend, or cheat on him. I just regret ever meeting this boy because I can't stop thinking about him. Which is frustrating.


my ex said the same thing. she then cheated on me with the same guy. just becareful, stop thinking about him cuz guess what, s**t happens.

good luck.guess what ^^ my ex fiance cheated on me with her ex. s**t indeed happens, and she pointed me in the direction of rules of conduct in a relationship, what girls want from a guy, one was to break up with her before cheating. Heh.

they say guys always cheat, but from the looks of it....lol I learned that some time ago, it was prestigious for a woman to be married, and a single woman was thought of as somehow different in a bad way, an outcast, now its almost seen as a drag.. well, it is seen as a drag ^^ media likes slutty women, and apparently women learn to be slutty from early age. Women learn "to be free". As for guys... well, guys learn that slutty women are slutty and enjoy the free ride.

so true. but you can see what im trying to tell this girl, yes?
I think I do ^^

im not trying to be rude, i just want no one hurtPeople learn best when they learn for themselves, we can just point them in the right direction. Loyalty is easy, but it takes a certain degree of understanding, and not just bragging "oh I am so loyal, I would never, I value loyalty".

i agree with you =)
i mean i understand to have a crush while youre dating someone, but if that person is always on your thoughs.. i dont think its considered a crush anymore
D;its considered a craving to mate. In simpler words, to ********. Animal desire, attraction, way of reproduction. Its different from liking someone as I think you mean by crush. I can like a person for what that person stands for, his manner of behavior, how that person holds him/herself, and I take it for what it is, that I like them. I know why I like them, and I know that I can like them all I want without ever wanting to mate.

of course, just how i love my bf to death, but maybe someone will catch my eye and ill talk to them, like everything about them, but i wouldnt wanna mate with em. a different mindset ^^ your boyfriend is the in crowd, everyone else is on a completely different circle/level. Your boyfriend is family (and people get married).

so true. though its odd, he is 100% different then me.. im a punk rock and he's all black (not ganster but in a way sorta)You love him for who he is as a person, not for a set of characteristics, and you don't check off a list of things that your boyfriend has to be to be your boyfriend. He is he, and you love him, and will love him, as a creature of change and adaptation. You would simply joy in seeing him grow and join in as a part of him.

but ofcourse:] genius is simple *ebil scientist snicker* .. well then ^^ relationships that work starting at 12 and ending at the graveyards are simple, they often work because of abundance of common (not so common) sense, and ~ ^^ sugar and spice, everything nice, and commitment. Blablabla

haha. i just hope this one works for me, all my other ones have been bad, ever last one cheated on me =SMy best regards ^^ at least you did not give up believing in little miracles like love, lasting.