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Okay. So I was wondering about something that would be a problem to a recent relationship I aquired. I asked:

What would you do if you had a long distance relationship and you suddenly had

to stop talking to your significant other (S.O.). For example, you use your cell to

keep in contact because your S.O. doesn't have internet but your phone acts up

and you can't recieve calls or texts; or you don't have a house phone to keep in

contact with your S.O., would you break it off or stay tough and stay with your

loved one till you would be able to come in contact again?

This was actually about my recent partner...and then Lucian, my partner, replied... sweatdrop I was kind of embarressed because he wasn't supposed to find it..and he did v///v;;;

So then this is what his post said:





Call me a hopeless romantic, but I firmly believe that if the feelings are genuine and mutual then it would work out...

Personally, I've never been one for direct relationships! It makes me uncomfortable to have my said-lover right there while I'm still getting to know them. I like to know my girlfriend/boyfriend before I see them, otherwise I noticed I can be a little shallow. I don't really mind if my lover is a complete train-wreck, as long as I can have an actual conversation with him/her! I like intelligent girls/boys, even if they're horrid to look at. I overcome it. I've had four relationships in real life, and they ended HORRIBLY. I always broke them off because for some reason, most were based upon sole appearance. Like, "Ooh, they're SO cute together!" Bleh. Not if I have a complete DITZ for a lover. I hate how undignified it is. I prefer to be entertained, not some doll in a doll set.

Point is, I think it's smart to give it a try.


P.S. - "Lady Psycho Sexy" has a sluttish bad look on this whole thing... "Take a break and see where things go with that person"?! That is completely disgraceful to everything you and your said-partner had! Shameful... You never know what might have been! Typically, the person that one ends up with ISN'T from in-town. On several instances I know people who have met on the internet and ended up married. I think that people, MAINLY teens, do that is because of hormones and wanting to hump everything all the time. Just my opinion though. xD