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Hi I'm Corrina! *A.k.a Tropical Dreams* This is where I post my every life. Things like Stories, Poems, Feelings and so on. Comment if you like ^.^
~Why people Argue~
adreniline...

if a person makes you mad enough and you are yelling at the top of your lungs at one another, your adreniline is pumping, your blood and heart rushing to the point of no return, to the violent barrier we all have and if that person pushes you far enough something in your mind snaps and you become an animal once more, you return to your basic animal instincts and do what they do in the wild: attack. that is why we fight after an argument…your adenline wants to calm down so your body follows through with it until it expels most of it.


Natural

Violence is inherant in human beings, we’re all killers really. Adrenaline, anger, hate all these things revolve around an animal instict for combat. We all try to pretend we are this civilised race, above animals when really we arent any different. At least that s the deep view, other than that some people are incapable of getting their point across without shouting or resorting to violence, usually because they are ignorant.


Good Will

People dont realize that fighting happens becasue of fear. No one likes to admit they’re wrong so they say things out of fear that probably contradict themselves. They try to justify theyre point not realizing that they’re just provoking. We all prejudge, if someone isn’t like us we’ll pick out what makes them different but not taking the time to search for their good will. Everyone wants to be important in life but we all go about it in completely different ways, some ways good, some ways evil, Hitler was scared that the jews were Germany’s threat, he was trying to save germany but he came to that conclusion with opinions, not facts therefore his evil ways made him important to Germany. If someone insults you, you’re only as weak-minded as them if you insult back because their words hurt you, you shouldnt give your enemies what they want but most people do. Everyone sees a persons reputation and this makes people so hostile to defend their reputation.

People argue because of some form of misunderstanding, be it mental or verbal or physical, there is some aversion there to inflame to the level of argument, it is as simple as that. (coupled of course with tolerance and anger.)

If you are arguing and arguing and not getting your point across you will get angrier and more frustrated. The chemicals in your brain will be off balance when you are stressed, like anger is a stress, you may then resort to your instincts which are physical, get rid of the other person who is causing the problem.





 
 
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