Choose people who will not cut you off from your friends that have your best interests at heart. That is what I learned from my friend's trouble fighting with her friend. She thought all of her friends would be mad at her and that it was almost the end of the world for her (and it might have been) but when she went back to her friends she got good advice as to how to deal with the one who was really mad at her. People who would cut you off from your friends are potentially dangerous. If they get you alone without any advisors...? Well don't take the chance they're on your side unless they are someone you already know irl that has your best interests at heart and have proven that in the past. I think I have learned that. Make sense? PM me if you want to agree or disagree.
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