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I hate that thing whether in art or real life where one person, usually a man, decides what's best for another person, usually a woman, without reference to what that person might want for themselves. I'm all for disclosure, but I can't see why an adult can't be assumed competent to decide for herself how much risk she is willing to accept in a relationship. It makes me all stabby.