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Now now, it's not a matter of you not being good enough, but moreso they're not good enough for you...If Tom's being like that, then a) he shouldn't sign on B) if it's a random decision, he should have the common courtesy to tell you that he's going to play video games c) he's an idiot for the above reasons.

The way I see it, is you have two options. One, lay it all out on the line for him be it on msn while he's busy, wait for him to turn around and talk to you (but by the sounds of things, that won't happen) and force him to stop being such an a**. Two, dump his a**. Seriously, if a guy who is supposed to care for you would rather play video games than spend a few minutes talking with you, he's not worth it sweetie.

Derrick, well I won't say much cause there would be a hell of a lot of cursing. Basically put, cheater = second lowest form of a 'man'

Andy, he's a step above Derrick, but not by much. (It was nice to see you smiling and happy while you started your relationship with him, hence why he's a step above Derrick. More often than not with Derrick, you were disappointed, let down, and depressed).

Tom, well, he's being an a**, which I suppose is a step above Andy. You're going up on the scale at least. However....

IF YOU WANT TO AVOID THIS PROBLEM INTRODUCE THEM TO THE BESTIE, LET THE BESTIE TALK TO SAID PERSON FOR AT LEAST A MONTH AND ASK WHAT SHE THINKS!!!!! -coughs- Solution? You likey? We can impliment it in Lethy?

Very good solution. smile