When you give someone your heart... It'll forever be theirs' to keep... Even if they say, "I can't give you my heart again..." It's because they can't give you something you already posses.
Love is a fragile thing... I know this.
You can never fall out of love... But you can come to a realization that you never actually loved the person, if you find that you love someone else...
Choose your words carefully... "I love you" is not a word/phrase that should be used so casually.
The word "Love" is abused in our society. It's so overused without giving it much thought. Yeah, there are different forms/types of definitions of Love... But the one that shows true commitment, a true bond, a real and unbreakable relationship is indeed overused.
Love never dies, in my opinion. When you love someone, you love only them... You do whatever it takes to make things work, strive to keep the relationship alive, balanced, on key, healthy. Love is like working out... You have to go to the gym every day to get stronger and stronger. You don't have any breaks, or you go in whenever you feel like it. You go on a daily basis to get stronger and stronger... Making progress day by day, week by week. Even though when you possibly think about giving up... You stay positive and look to how it'll benefit you later on in life.
People say we never choose who we fall in love with... But I say otherwise.
If you allow that person into you heart and such, then you're giving yourself permission to fall in love with them- vise-versa.
Sometimes we make the mistake and fall in love with the wrong people...
But that's not always the case. Others know EXACTLY who the person is that they are letting in to allow themselves to love, because they have this feeling that is rather unexplainable... Like, their brain is tricking them into believing that they could possibly change for the better.
With each passing second that goes by, a heart is broken because of "Love" being thrown in the mix of a relationship.
"You said you love me, why would you leave me?"
"Did you even mean it when you said, "I love you" to me?"
"Love doesn't just go away!"
This is why the word, "Love" should not be used so casual... It causes more tears, heartache, and soul shattering pain than necessary when going through a break up.
This is why it's harder for people to let go...
This is why the saying comes in, "Love is blind(ing)."
This is why some heartbroken kids slip into that depression, the anti-socialism, the worthlessness, the giving up in the will to live... But most of all... They lose themselves... They find that they don't even know who they are anymore...
All because of those three little words.
Have no regrets about love... Because in the end, we all have ourselves to blame.
"Better to have loved, than to never have loved at all..." Doubtful...
A phrase that should be nonexistent... Yet... It exists.
I have no regrets, because love is beautiful... But all beautiful things come with a fetchy price to pay.
Love wise, and love hard.
Don't stop working out and then feel like you should come in when you feel guilty.
Hate/regret does not live in my heart...
Only him... Only love. =]
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