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Shouldnt friends be kind to one another? i thought they should be, but it seems everytime i get into an argument with one friend in particular i always wonder if i shouldve ever been friends with her in the first place. I dont talk trash about peoples families, because i know that no matter what kind of person someone is it it because of them and not their families. Everyone is their own person, i believe as long as you live you make your own decisions whether or not your influences will change you. My parents are very strict and disciplined, but that doesnt change the fact that i am a very..."live for the moment" kind of person. My parents constatnly tel me i should act ike an adult, but i still foo around with my friends.
My parents say im stubborn, i say im strong willed, i will not change easily. I only wish my friend could feel the same, i have never spoken ill about her family, yet she has about mine. I do not take such insults lightly, I have decided not to speak to her until i hear an apology. I only wonder if she ever will...because she is a stubborn person and i do wish to be friends with her. But i love my family, i may not act like it but i do. and if you insult them, you insult me, and i wont put up with it.
if you could comment on any suggestions that you may have for me, please do so. I would be grateful smile