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Try letting her decide to talk to you.

trust me...she's not going to...and i found out why she won't so XP which i kinda feel realived about and yet kinda dissapointed.

I see wish to explain bro?

I know exactly how you feel about becoming distant with friends, and I'm no expert on friendship, but I know how it feels to become distant with close friends from experience, the truth is people move on and sometimes they leave you behind because they meet other people and they'll say something like you're not "cool enough for them anymore" and it sucks but eventualy you move on too and find other people to befriend and life goes on, its just a sad fact of life... and again I know exactly how you feel, I had this HUGE stalker-ish crush on this guy and I know what its like to wonder what their thinking, and so would like to offer up some advice; Ok there's a few ways to figure out the situation, 1. Get to know her friends and make sure they don't hate you (that's very important. people, especially girls, are greatly influenced by their friends) and then ask them what her opinion of you is, 2. Just talk to her and get to know her and see how things progress from there, 3. DO NOT stalk her, not only is it slightly illegal, its also very creepy, trust me I know from experience its not very effective... So chances are she might just be shy, but then again I don't know her so I wouldn't know, but I hope my advice helped, and let me know if you need any further advice, and I am sorry that I write a lot sweatdrop ...