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No, no you don't. Chances are if thats your attitude you don't know the first thing about pleasing a woman. Hell you probably don't even know what signs to look for, let me give you a lesson:

Signs to pay attention to:

If you think just closing her eyes and moaning means she is really enjoying the sex then you're sadly mistaken, try taking a look around her body to properly gauge your sexual prowess.

Head:

Heavy breathing + biting of lips alternating with moaning, eyes opening wide and closing shut.

Upper torso/arms:

Generally there will be alot of movement from heavy breathing, her hands should also be balling up into fists or clenching whatever you're having sex on, either that or shes playing with her breasts. (I don't even need to mention anything about nipples, do I?)

Lower torso/pelvis:

What you should expect to see is a bit of either subtle or intense movement, generally a slight sucking in and pushing out of her stomach, also she'll generally raise her pelvis a bit upward or try to match your strokes with her own movement.

Vag:

Should be somewhere between moist and completely drenched.

Legs/feet:

Subtle to heavy leg/feet movement and the clenching of toes.

If shes only displaying several of these signs then shes not enjoying it as much as she should be, if shes showing a majority of them then you're definetly doing something right, but if if shes showing them all you're definetly great in bed.

This applies both to oral and regular sex.

Tips for success

If you want to keep your woman happy follow these simple guidelines:

1. Get her warmed up slowly, this will lead to more anticipation and excitement. If you're going to start with oral try gently kissing from her lips down her body, it works.

2. Be a bit playful, don't just act like Mr. serious the whole time, let your hands roam her body, play with her boobs a bit or even rub her c**t, otherwise it may seem a bit boring. (Also applied to oral)

3. Sensuality can be just as stimulating as full on sex, if you've got the opportunity embrace it (ex. shes facing away from you and on your lap, stop pumping for and gently massage her hips while kissing her neck for a little bit).

4. For oral - don't just think your tongue will do the job, use your fingers too, rub and stimulate her while gently massaging with the tongue. You could even pinch her n****e with one, they are usually very sensitive when shes turned on.

5. Most imporantly pay attention to what she likes and be sure to adapt your style to suit her tastes.

It doesn't just take having a big c**k or a long tongue to get the job done with your girl, you need to know what you're doing if you really want to keep her coming back for more.

Disclaimer:

This is based on my own personal experiences; so feel free to add in your own thoughts and contribute.

INB4:

LOL ur a virgin
TL;DR
You're only trying to get girls to talk to you.
Psh you don't know s**t, all I need is a big d**k.
You couldn't please me even if you tried.